From the Editors!
Hello everyone!
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To My Future Husband:
I just want to listen to your heartbeat and feel it against my skin. I am waiting for you, beloved.
To My Future Wife:
I’ll kiss you in the rain. I’d rather kiss you in our warm house, but I want to make all your dreams come true.
To My Future Husband:
I feel like everything in my life has led me to you. My choices, my heartbreaks, my regrets. Everything. And when we’re together my past seems so worth it. Because if I had done one thing differently, I might never have met you.
To My Future Wife:
I hope you know how much I love you, and how much I wish I could be with you today and tomorrow and next month. And even though I can’t hold you tonight, I hope you are happy.
To My Future Husband:
I’m fiercely independent and I don’t wait around to see what will happen. I build up walls with no intention of ever tearing them down. Please be patient, be gentle, be kind. Show me what love is. But don’t think you have to tear down the walls I’ve built, I’ll open the door and let you in.
Maybe if I was less myself I would be more attractive to the men who seemed to be forever looking through me or past me.
I stood in front of the mirror and watched myself drown in a sea of maybes, being pulled under by my shrinking self confidence and self worth. And instead of telling myself I was lovely and special and strong enough to swim for shore, I made concessions. I began to catalog the things I’d be willing to part with, the parts of me I’d be okay with sacrificing in the name of the love. I picked apart my body, my personality, and my passions and had a mental list of things I would give up if it meant finding a man. I made a deal with myself: if it meant finding true love, I would change who I was into who they wanted…
I won’t change for you.
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I never dated in college (or high school…or after college…or ever…) and I assumed that was because something was wrong with me. I was convinced something about me made me undateable, because what other explanation could there be? I watched my friends date…
To My Future Wife:
I don’t need a fancy wedding that you dreamed up on Pinterest. I just need you and me and a couple of rings so I can promise you forever.
To My Future Wife:
I promise to love your family as much as you love them. I promise to laugh at the silly things you do. I promise to hold you when you cry and dry your tears. I promise to go on adventures with you, spontaneous and planned. I promise to always order dessert so you can eat it when you think I don’t notice. I promise to be your best friend and lover. I promise to love you and honor you and cherish you always until the last breath leaves my body.
