I want a love like Cory and Topanga’s. Yes I know that would mean that we would already have to know each other but.. I want you to be my absolute best friend before we fall in love. And I want you to always insist on our love lasting through anything and everything, even when I might disagree. I love you already. Can’t wait to be yours.
Here you are, and you are nothing that I imagined you would be but everything I have ever dreamed of. I thank you for taking the time to seek God’s face as I did before our appointed meeting. I thank you for being my best friend and understanding me and not trying to change me, but accepting me for who I am in this moment and loving me. I promise to listen to you and respond with gentleness and honesty. I promise to forgive and truly forget. I ask that you remember that our marriage is a lifetime work in process, I am willing to commit full time and ask that you do the same. I love you and I will spend the rest of my life showing that to you.
This is a bit trivial, but there will be times when I send you out on a tampon run. I hope you don’t mind too much. My only major request: don’t EVER buy the kind with cardboard, or I WILL be sending you back to the store. Heheh, love you ;D
Husband, can we do fun things together? Not that I’m at all against lazy Sundays and banana pancakes, but I’d also be up for the odd hike before sunrise, or a campout in the middle of the woods, spur-of-the-moment nerf gun battles, dance parties, middle-of-the-night, top-of-the-roof star gazing, cupcake wars, rock climbing adventures, water ballon fights, 24 hour movie marathons, random weekend road trips, car karaoke, epic meal time, you know, the uge…
I can’t wait to wake up next to you every morning. I’ll cook you breakfast while wearing your t-shirt from yesterday. We’ll have pillow fights, watch movies, and drink hot chocolate. We’ll share secrets while we cuddle and fall asleep. And everyday will special simply because I have you.
Everyone’s out partying and having a great time tonight. I kind of feel like a loser, like I’m missing out. I hope being with you sober makes me feel that kind of drunk-happy everyone else around me is feeling. In the meantime, this sucks! Come get me!
Sex isn’t a weapon and it won’t be used as such. Not by you and not by me. We will be equals and your “goodies” are no better than mine. I won’t do things to “earn” sex. That’s not how things are supposed to be done. Sex is supposed to be an expression of love and I hope and pray you’ll see it as the same thing.
I will not get married until we both agree that divorce is not an option. Ever. I will not put our children through what I went through. Sure, we’ll have our fights and maybe even spend some nights apart if need be. But I know that we will be able to make it through if we go into it agreeing on this.
"If we try to leave, may God send angels to guard the door. Love is not a fight, but it’s something worth fighting for." - Warren Barfield
A while back, musician Kasey Anderson (hilarious dude) tweeted this gem, “I’d probably believe in God if the people who claim to follow Him actually acted like it” (I’m having to paraphrase because it was a long time ago and my memory is terrible). Kasey is an atheist/agnostic who …
I know that we will face many trials in our marriage, but i am ready to do that with you. I’m so sorry for ever doubting, I want to be a strong wife for you someday. I trust God that He is keeping your mind safe right now. Always trust in Him, because He will provide a way…even when it seems hopeless. I love you, and always will.
I would quite like it if our marriage is something like a big compilation of Pam and Jim from the Office, Andy and April from Parks and Rec, and Carl and Ellie from Up all rolled up in one. I think I would really like that, actually.
You are currently out there somewhere, either looking for me or preparing yourself for this life-altering search. We’re entering into a most thrilling game of hide and seek; I’m hiding almost entirely out in the open which should ease your task to some degree, but the bigger hint I’ve offered you is that I’m facing a very distinct direction- one which you will know and know well. I feel giddy as a smitten young girl yet resolute as a woman with an impenetrable goal. Even though I know not your form or your heart, I anxiously await the day on which I can sing that I am yours and you are mine. When covenantal charms adorn our hands I will ever do that which I swear to do. Daily my commitment to you will remain; daily the appetite of my heart will consume your being… Until then, courageous one, I wait for your hand to point to me and for your voice to echo among the other seekers: “Boys, she’s mine.”
Promise me we won’t condone drama in our relationship. I’ve seen what it does to people. It’s all jealousy, bitterness, and worst of all, broken hearts. Let’s show them what a real relationship looks like.
I hope you know that I consider us to be equals. Your opinion means as much to our relationship as mine does. I’ll be the leader as I’m supposed to be, but I want nothing more than for you to be equally by my side forever more.
I know you’ll be handsome. I know you’ll be strong. I know you’ll be flawed. I know you’ll be funny. I know you’ll be stubborn. I know you’ll be sweet. I know you’ll be patient. I know you’ll be loving and kind. I know you’ll be passionate. I know you’ll have a wonderful family. I know you’ll be cuddly. I know you’ll be a good father. I know you’ll be a good husband. I know divorce will never be an option for us. And I’ll love all these things about you, as well as the things I don’t know about you yet.